Guys, where do you like to be touched when your girl is kissing you?

For girls, or me at least, I like it when a guy has his arms around my waist and rubbing my backside when he's kissing me on the lips. I also love it when guys kiss me anywhere on my neck. But where do guys prefer getting kissed? And when kissing intimately on the lips, where would you like your woman's arms to be? rubbing your back? the back of your neck? back the head/hair? what give you the best sensation while kissing? I'm curious. the guys I've dated never told me what they prefer.